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Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5i giao di\u1ec7n c\u00e1i blog v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc blog r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. V\u00e0 h\u00f4m nay m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i vi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac ch\u1ee3t ngh\u0129, c\u00e1i blog c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng b\u1ee5i ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft vi\u1ebft ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec nghe cho n\u00f3 “hay”, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y th\u00e1ng m\u1edbi l\u00ean m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i. Nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u01a1 ch\u1ee9, m\u00ecnh th\u00edch vi\u1ebft th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 vi\u1ebft th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 h\u00f4m qua khi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111ang r\u1ed1i r\u1eafm th\u00ec v\u00e0o tr\u00fang m\u1ed9t trang blog \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1eadt b\u00ecnh y\u00ean nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i blog m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n. N\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i blog l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ebfm \u1ea3nh (l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ef1c h\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh v\u00ec h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i vibe c\u1ee7a b\u00e0i m\u00ecnh vi\u1ebft, vi\u1ebft 1 ti\u1ebfng th\u00ec c\u00f3 khi t\u00ecm 1 t\u1ea5m \u1ea3nh c\u0169ng c\u1ea3 30′ nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n m\u1ec7t h\u01a1n do ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc), v\u00ec v\u1eady, design c\u1ee7a chi\u1ebfc blog m\u1edbi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c pain point \u0111\u00f3 \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Lifestyle ra sao? Nhi\u1ec1u khi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n vi\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, n\u00ean m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t category m\u1edbi l\u00e0 Life Recently, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi m\u1ed7i khi ng\u1ed3i suy ngh\u0129 c\u00e1i title v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1. H\u00e1t hay kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng hay h\u00e1t \ud83d\ude00 Vi\u1ebft hay kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng hay vi\u1ebft \ud83d\ude00 M\u00ecnh th\u00edch th\u00ec m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m th\u00f4i \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u00e0 lifestyle m\u00ecnh g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y r\u1ea5t ch\u00e1n, r\u1ea5t unhealthy, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i th\u1eddi m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi l\u1eadp blog. H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c g\u1ea7n 2 n\u0103m m\u00e0i m\u1eb7t h\u1ecdc, t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c permanent contract b\u00ean n\u00e0y. G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng hay n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i, m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u00e1i ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi qua \u0111\u00e2y n\u1eefa. V\u00ec sao? M\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u00edch m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Ch\u1eafc v\u00ec t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c b\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00e1 kh\u00f3, c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0 kh\u00ed vui v\u1ebb trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ecf \u0111i c\u00e1i t\u00ednh “th\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0 ru\u1ed9t ng\u1ef1a” v\u00e0 b\u1ed9c tr\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi c\u00f2n \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed junior, m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 lu\u00f4n h\u00e0nh x\u1eed th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 d\u0129 ho\u00e0 vi qu\u00fd nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c professional v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. V\u00e0 m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng do v\u00ec m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh qua \u0111\u00e2y v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf l\u1ea1i, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 d\u01b0ng l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y n\u00ean xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi local \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. M\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang th\u00f4i, c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng sinh ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n ho\u00e0 nh\u1eadp th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0 tan m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e1i th\u1eddi \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u1ee9 th\u00edch l\u00e0 v\u1eaby v\u00f9ng, th\u00edch l\u00e0 th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng (\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u1edf c\u00f4ng s\u1edf khi c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y \u00f4ng m\u1ea5y b\u00e0 b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t m\u00ecnh :D). \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y m\u00ecnh d\u0129 ho\u00e0 vi qu\u00fd h\u01a1n, ph\u1ea7n th\u00ec th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1ea7n h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec1n, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4ng s\u1edf b\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n v\u00ec m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u01a1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i qu\u00e1 nhanh qu\u00e1 may m\u1eafn so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng qua \u0111\u00e2y h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c, n\u00ean l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t cao, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n c\u01b0 x\u1eed th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m. M\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u, v\u00ec qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, tuy nhi\u00ean, khi m\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec “qu\u00e1” th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. M\u00ecnh nghi\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1, s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00ean c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 d\u00f9 m\u1ec7t d\u00f9 c\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n t\u1ecf ra vui v\u1ebb l\u1ea1c quan v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh ri\u1ebft r\u1ed3i gi\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm \u0111i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt l\u00fac n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng hay. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. V\u00ec \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng su\u00f4n s\u1ebb di\u1ec5n ra \u1edf c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, nh\u01b0ng theo th\u00f3i quen, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 ki\u1ec1m n\u00e9n, cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ecb stress v\u00ec ch\u1ecbu h\u1ebft n\u1ed5i th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng h\u01a1i mu\u1ed9n, \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u0111i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c l\u1ea1i l\u00e2u h\u01a1n. Do v\u1eady, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb t\u1eeb l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 “do not want something too much”. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, uh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u00f4i, m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ea5m \u0103n x\u00f4i l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1edf l\u1ea1i Ph\u1ea7n Lan. M\u00ecnh qua Ph\u1ea7n Lan l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng vui v\u1ebb h\u01a1n, lifestyle t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o c\u00e1i th\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u1ebf kia?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt kinh kh\u1ee7ng, c\u00f3 khi n\u00e0o l\u00e0 do m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con Thi\u00ean B\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh hi\u1ec7u kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9? \ud83d\ude00 Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea1i l\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u positive vibes nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \ud83d\ude00 M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady lu\u00f4n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ph\u1ea3i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng nhen m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng,… t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u x\u1ebfp sau ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh, y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, r\u1ed3i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u0111i theo m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 n\u00ean l\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u00ecnh quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i vi\u1ebft blog th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n v\u00ec m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t th\u00edch vi\u1ebft. Vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, v\u00e0 sao ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 vi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfng Anh khi m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y vi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh than th\u1ea3n h\u01a1n? 7,5 ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng Anh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i, n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y vi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh vui h\u01a1n th\u00ec c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i. ChatGPT c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh version ti\u1ebfng Anh sau \ud83d\ude00 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u1eeb h\u00f4m nay m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n nh\u1eafc m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 v\u1ee5c m\u1eb7t 2 n\u0103m h\u1ecdc + t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c \u1edf Ph\u1ea7n Lan. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh 100%, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh y\u00ean vui v\u1ebb th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 nghi\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 coi! Vui v\u1ebb quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, and balance is the key!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Love yourself first, the rest of the world can wait.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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English version by ChatGPT<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n So, I\u2019ve changed the blog interface because I was inspired by a very simple blog. And today, I\u2019m writing in Vietnamese again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes I think, the blog just sits there collecting dust because I don’t know what “interesting” topic to write about, and thus, it takes me months to publish a post. But why does it have to be like that? If I like writing, I should just write. And yesterday, when I was feeling troubled, I came across a simple blog that made me feel very peaceful and calm, so I decided to change my blog as well. In the past, every time I wrote a blog post, I had to find a picture (which was a torture for someone like me because the picture always had to convey the vibe of my post\u2014writing for 30 minutes but sometimes finding a picture took another 30 minutes, which was even more tiring due to the selection process). Therefore, the design of this new blog will help me avoid that pain point \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n\n\n\n How has my life been lately? What about my lifestyle? Sometimes I just want to write like this, so I created a new category called Life Recently, which saves me the trouble of thinking up titles and topics. Singing well isn\u2019t as good as singing often \ud83d\ude00 Writing well isn\u2019t as good as writing often \ud83d\ude00 If I like it, I\u2019ll do it \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n\n\n\n I have to say, my lifestyle has been very dull and unhealthy lately, not like when I first started the blog. It\u2019s the result of nearly two years of grinding, studying, job hunting, and working to secure a permanent contract here. Recently, I\u2019ve been telling my close friends that I feel like I\u2019ve lost something, lost my essence. I don\u2019t feel like myself as I was before coming here. Why? I find myself caring about whether others like me, especially at work. Probably because finding a job here is quite difficult, I cherish the opportunity I got and have made great efforts to maintain harmony and happiness at work, giving up my straightforward and outspoken nature that I had in Vietnam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Starting from a junior position, I understand that there are many things I don\u2019t know, and working with foreigners, not compatriots, I try to behave really well and keep the peace as much as possible. This is also a professional way of working with the kind colleagues here. I\u2019m aware that I came here with the desire to stay, and since I didn\u2019t suddenly become a citizen here, my starting point is more disadvantaged compared to the locals. And it\u2019s true, everything has its price. I wasn\u2019t born here, so if I want to integrate, I also have to blend in a bit. It\u2019s not like in Vietnam where I could be more bold and outspoken (especially in the office when dealing with those who tried to bully me :D). Here, I try to keep the peace, partly because Finnish people are very gentle, the work environment here is very calm, and partly because I found an opportunity so quickly and luckily compared to other friends who came here to study and find jobs. Therefore, my gratitude is very high, leading me to want to behave really well with everyone at work. I think this isn\u2019t bad because I truly appreciate everything, but when something is \u201ctoo\u201d much, it\u2019s not good either. I\u2019ve become too addicted to work, afraid of losing the opportunity, so I dedicate myself completely, and even when I\u2019m tired and struggling, I still always appear cheerful and optimistic with my colleagues. It\u2019s not bad, but it doesn\u2019t reflect my true self. It\u2019s not that I\u2019m being fake, but this habit has gradually made me hide my true feelings without even realizing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Recently, I\u2019ve noticed this and felt that it\u2019s making me exhausted. Sometimes, when things don\u2019t go well at work, I\u2019ve suppressed my feelings so much that by the time I\u2019m stressed and can\u2019t take it anymore, it\u2019s a bit late, and it\u2019s drained a lot of my energy, making recovery take longer. So, I\u2019ve decided to slowly regain myself. I think, first of all, I have to remind myself to \u201cdo not want something too much.\u201d Meaning, it\u2019s just a job, I do it well, but don\u2019t lose myself. Don\u2019t go to extreme lengths just to keep a job in Finland. I came to Finland to live a fairer and happier life with a better lifestyle, so why am I putting myself in the opposite situation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n An unbalanced life is terrible for me; maybe it\u2019s because I\u2019m a true Libra? \ud83d\ude00 I never thought that studying and working too much would take away so much of my positive vibes \ud83d\ude00 I never thought it would be like that. So, balance is necessary, everyone. Work, money, achieving something or not\u2026 all of these should come after yourself. First and foremost, always be yourself, love yourself, and then everything else will follow as it should.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ve decided to return to blogging more often because I really like writing. Writing makes me feel peaceful, and why should I force myself to write in English when writing in Vietnamese makes me feel more at ease? 7.5 hours of working with colleagues in English is enough; if writing in Vietnamese makes me happier, then just go for it. ChatGPT can help me with the English version later \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n\n\n\n From today, I must always remind myself who I was before coming and spending 2 years studying and job hunting in Finland. That\u2019s the real me, 100%, and only by truly being myself can I feel genuinely peaceful and happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And don\u2019t be too addicted to work; happiness is more important, and balance is the key!<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cLove yourself first, the rest of the world can wait.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n 21.07.2024<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0110\u1ed5i giao di\u1ec7n blog Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5i giao di\u1ec7n c\u00e1i blog v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1373,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-recently"],"yoast_head":"\nChanging the Blog Interface<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\nBoring Lifestyle and Losing Myself a Bit<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The Terrible Unbalanced Life<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Trying to Get Back on Track!!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n